Last Saturday, we brought some of our unworn or unloved-but-still-fabulous garments, and swopped them for someone else's. Clothes were tried on and judged based on whether they suited the wearer's shape and colouring, and Karin wouldn't let anyone go home with something that made them look drab. Some of us found a great deal that suited them; some found less, but we all went home feeling grand, with something 'new' in hand, and having done our bit for the environment. Definitely doing this again!
What a great way to spend a Saturday! These three ladies worked hard at discovering their Style Personalities, Body Shapes, Vertical Proportions and ideal styles, lengths, prints and accessories, and it was worth every minute. They now have all the tools they need to go shopping, ensuring that they will ALWAYS come away with something that they will look fabulous in for years to come.
Well done, ladies!
PS. I saw Doret at church on Sunday, and she had implemented all her new knowledge - she looked STUNNING!
"Helen Mirren's pink dress deserves an award" - The Sydney Morning Herald
If we can take anything away from this year's Oscars red carpet, it's that the mature set consistently does it better than the young'uns. Perhaps they know from experience which colours and shapes suit them, and how to hide their flaws and make their assets shine. These classy ladies (or their fabulous stylists) know that even the most expensive, fashionable or well-cut dress looks like nothing if it doesn't suit the wearer's skin tone, hair, body and makeup. The right combination, however, brings Marie Kondo-esque joy to both the wearer and the beholder. Go, you stylish "senior citizens"!
I had the privilege of attending a clothes swop party in my neighbourhood this weekend.
What a lovely way to meet my neighbours, quaff a few bubbles, and get some welcome additions to your wardrobe without paying a cent!
Everyone went home with something "new" - some lucky ladies left with bags full of clothes! - and fun was had by all.
If you live in Perth, let me know when you're hosting a clothes swop party, and invite me over for some (free) fashion advice!
It's the start of the year, and a great time to get organised. That goes for the wardrobe, too!
After all, who wants to spend half an hour every morning deciding what to wear?
We all have better things to do.
Here are some tips and a check-list to make it easier.
Use the checklist as follows:
If you still have trouble deciding what to keep, or find it hard to ascertain which colours and styles suit you, then contact me for a Wardrobe Emergency Rescue session.
This is where I spend one hour in your wardrobe, and help you draw up a plan of what you need to keep, what you need to get rid of and what you need to add.
I will also advise you what you need in order to get more wear and more joy out of your clothes in the future.
It's been said that after dark, there are only three colours that can hold their own: black, white and red.
Red certainly is the most exciting of these colours, and paired with a bold red lip, how can you go wrong?
Welllll...unfortunately, it often does go wrong.
I see a lot of red dresses in the society pages that are not living up to their full potential, because they are not accessorised correctly.
Here are the rules:
RULE 1: SHOES.
Repeat after me: blonde ladies should not wear black shoes with a red dress.
Why not? We end up focusing on your black shoes, because they don't harmonise with anything in your appearance, and your loveliness gets lost.
When wearing a red dress (or any other colour, for that matter), you should either wear shoes in the same shade of red (looks divine!), or your shoes should tone with your hair.
These are the best shoe colours to wear with a red dress:
Brunettes: brown/tan/gold or navy
Ravens: navy or black
Gray hair: silver/gray
The only exception to this rule is when you wear a hat in the same colour as your shoes, for instance a red dress with a black hat and black shoes can work even if you have blonde hair.
A good shop assistant is a ninja: she is trained to overpower you and take your money before you have time to feel a thing.
She knows exactly how long to give you before she makes eye contact, and starts flirting (about five seconds after you enter). She knows exactly when to ask you how it's going while you're in the change room. When I worked in retail, I was trained to peek under the door: when the customer's feet turned to the side, it meant she was looking at herself in the mirror, and that would be the perfect time to knock and ask "How does that look?" A sneaky technique, but it works.
Your well-trained sales assistant ninja even knows how to run around like crazy while you're in the fitting room to find you something "that will go with those pants", because she gets more commission on multiple sales than on single ones.
So, if the sales lady is so well trained, how do we, as shoppers without any training in the martial-shopping-arts, defend ourselves?
Read on, and learn the art of Defensive Shopping...
Rule 2: Get your Ninja on
The first thing we need to learn in defending ourselves from the shop assistant ninja, is to fight like she does. Being rude is not going to get you the dress you really want, so you have to play the game.
Firstly, to avoid being caught in the ninja-net five seconds after you have entered the shop, do the Stop-in-the-Doorway Block. If you stand in the doorway of the shop (unless it's a large department store), you should be able to see most of the clothes. Have your colour swatch in one hand, and your Hit List in the other, and compare the colours in that shop with your colour swatch. If you can't see at least four or five colours from your swatch, and there is no item that "calls" to you very loudly (as in "Look, I'm your colour and shape AND I'm on your list AND I'm just fabulous!"), then turn around and leave. The sales lady will not have had a chance to greet you yet, therefore no relationship will have been established, and you won't have to feel that you're rude if you just walk out again.
DO NOT set foot in a shop that doesn't OBVIOUSLY have what you're looking for. You will only set yourself up for failure.
If you do find a shop that looks promising, go in and be prepared to speak to the sales assistant. Never mumble "Oh, I'm just browsing." This is, of course, a thinly disguised way of saying "Leave me alone," but it's not going to get you those white pants you came in for.
Jane Fonda does it again! Honestly, the woman is Benjamin Button - she just gets younger and more fabulous. I wonder if she uses Arbonne?
Brilliant use of the fringed gold choker to add focus and age-appropriate modesty to the outfit, and kudos to her hairdresser, who knows how to
balance her long face.
I don't know the name of the bright young Star Trooper on the right, but I want to repeat what I said earlier: if any part of your body appears obviously larger than your head, it is time to reconsider your outfit. In this
case, it's the chest. Too much and too little, in my opinion.
There is one simple rule for knowing which necklines suit you.
If a neckline follows the shape of your chin, it will suit you, and draw the attention to your eyes.
If it goes against the shape of your chin, it will not suit, and the attention will fall on your neck or your chin instead of your eyes.
Getting the attention to your eyes makes you look more awake and alive, more interesting and more powerful.
Blake Lively is so beautiful, she would look good in anything.
Yet, incredibly, in some colours she looks even better than in others.
See how radiant and regal she is in the light blue dress. The cool, bright colours of the Refined palette bring out her natural beauty, and allow us to focus our gaze on her face, and drown in her beautiful blue eyes. Also, with her hair up, we see the ash tones of her natural hair colour, which flatter her face even more. And yes, she is highly pregnant in this photo.
In the butternut dress on the left, however, she pales by comparison. The colour seems to be speaking louder than Blake's personality, and my eyes get drawn to her cleavage (however admirable) or to her hair (too golden-blonde), rather than to her face, which means the colour is wrong for her.
She also looks tired in the photo on the left, compared with the one on the right, in which she looks SO much more -dare I say it?- "lively"!